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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in the same scenario and I've had good luck on OKCUpid.  Be honest and forthright about what you are looking for and it will save you a lot of time.  I have met lots of men that are nice [b](none that are amazing)[/b].[/quote]

Like attracts like.  What makes you so amazing that you think you deserve an amazing man?[/quote]

If you are divorced and have young children that is two strikes against you being "amazing".

Most "amazing" men - and most half-way "amazing" men - are not looking for divorced women and they certainly are not looking for one who has children with all of the baggage that brings with it.[/quote]

The repetitive posts are booooring.  We get it, you don't like anyone divorced with kids.  That wasn't her question.  She wants to know where to find men that are not you.

I second OKC, but maybe talk to some normal friends in real life who can help by giving you some advice.  There have been a series of threads over the past couple of months where many of us have talked about our online experiences.  I suggest going back and reading through some of those -- I've given the same advice about online dating many times.

Met my ex out and about IRL.  He's a man of poor character, verbally abusive and a jerk.  Met my BF on OKC and he's mature, has integrity and treats me with respect.  Took a while to find him, but he is way better than the guy I wound up with when I was single with no kids, just starting out. I chose badly for sure the first go around.  BF does not view my kids as "baggage."  That is such a sad way to look at the situation and I would run from any man that thought of my family that way.  [/quote]

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