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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell DH that if he can't be there, you're calling MIL to cancel the visit and leaving it up to DH to reschedule it for a time he can be there. Period, end of story. Be very clear that it is far better to reschedule than leave you in a position where you're likely to end up in a terrible blow-out with his mom. It's for the long-term good of the relationship that you re-schedule.[/quote] Agree with this. Your husband needs to be there to deal with his mother. Period. My grandmother is bat-shit crazy, and she had three sons. I saw how my uncles used my aunts as human shields to buffer themselves from their crazy mom. Lucky for them, my aunts were both saints, but they went WAY above and beyond by doing the heavy lifting of dealing with their MIL. Just Say NO, OP!!![/quote]
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