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[quote=Anonymous]Just based on what you wrote, no you shouldn't do it. It sounds very jerky. Either you give money free of strings or you do not. Unless they are your children, I don't thnk you should be in the business of "teaching" them things. That is very condescending and isn't going to make for a harmonious extended family life. We have family members who are much less well off than we are. We give generously for things like weddings, showers, holidays, etc. If there was a serious emergency (health, disaster, etc), we of course would step up and cover things. But short of that, it isn't our place to try to rework their lives unless someone expressly asks for that sort of help. Another thing to think about is how your success was based in part on a lot of luck. Maybe that will help you be a little more kind spirited. [/quote]
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