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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is sort of a spin off to the "feeling sad thread".

I have been married for 14 yrs and I am NOT the person I was when I got married. So much has happened in the past 14 years that has forever changed me (my Mom's illness death/DH's mom's illness/death, miscarriage, 3 kids, etc)...

And the passion does diminish because after all I mentioned above - well I am not 24 anymore.

What does a healthy marriage evolve into? DH is one of my best friends.

Curious what other marriages look like after 14 years. [/quote]

We are at 9 years. We have 2 kids and I also had a miscarriage. His mother was sick and died a couple of years ago.
It's normal for people to change over time. If someone is exactly the same, they are stagnant and there is something wrong.

My DH and I are friends. I'm less social because 
a. I don't have the time
b. I don't have the time for B.S. in my life. I'm in my mid thirties so I guess that comes with age.

I don't think our passion has diminished. I think it's even better.
I think if you both do what's  best for your marriage and your sanity, it makes you grow stronger.
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