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Reply to "Bad advice from Mom. How to stop the flow of it and the expectation I will follow."
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[quote=Anonymous] My mother used to be hyper-controlling, sensitive and narcissistic, but has somewhat retreated into herself with age. Also, I have slowly distanced myself for years, physically (we're on different continents) and emotionally, to save my sanity. I refuse to befriend her on Facebook, for ex. She can argue what she wants on the phone, I can always hang up. I haven't had to do that often, but the mere thought of it calms me down and gives me more self-confidence to set boundaries. Stick to your guns, OP. Limit contact and information. Refuse to explain yourself, do not be put on the defensive. Never apologize. Be calm and direct and say exactly what you mean to say. All the better if it brings on a crisis. It is the only way she can be made to respect your position. [/quote]
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