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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here-LOL. I think I wasn't clear-I'm not still thinking about it a year later; I took the action a year ago but just recently realized I'd been wrong. So I've only been ruminating for a couple of weeks. :) The mistake is that DD is a very talented musician (think all-state, contest-winning, jaw-dropping good). So we upgraded and purchased an expensive instrument thinking it would be for the long term, and now she's decided that she no longer wants to continue. [/quote] WOW. If this were me, I'd make her. Actually, did SHE want the new, upgraded instrument and was she at the time interested in continuing with the music? If so, I would either 1.) make her stick with it, or 2.) have her pay off the cost of the instrument. If YOU pressured her into it when she didn't really want to then I think you should sell the instrument and then just suck up the loss. It's too bad that she doesn't want to continue, especially if she's that good![/quote]
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