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Reply to "I feel weird that my first love is getting married."
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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's totally normal, especially if you two had been out of touch prior to you finding this out. As someone said upthread, while your own life moves on, you still imagine people from your past in the same circumstance they were in when you exited their life. If you had sat around obsessing about whether they had met someone, etc. in the intervening years that would be way more unhealthy in my opinion. So you didn't (obsess) and they did (meet someone). But your last memory of them is intertwined with your memories of you two together as a couple. I don't think it's just exes that this happens with. I feel awkward/weird/funny when I see that a formerly close friend is getting married/divorced/whatever is contrary to the state that I knew them in. Part of it is just that you used to be such a big part of their life, and now you're finding out about a major development in it that you had no clue was coming.[/quote]
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