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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here....wow...I didn't think it was going to be a big deal. last year I gave the same group (minus 1 SIL who is a new mom of 2 weeks!) some nice bars of soap. I was wondering if the earrings would be cheesy since they are handmade. I am in no way obligating them or myself to reciprocate/do it every year. I just know they do a lot for their families and just wanted to do a very small something for them. [/quote] I'm the PP who suggested the out of the blue gift. If you've done this in the past, go for it! I could do this with my family and have it be a nice one-off without expectation of doing it every year or reciprocation. If I did this with my ILs, they would feel obligated to give something to me and my MIL would expect something every year. So it totally depends on the dynamic of the people involved. I don't think earrings are cheesy at all. It's a very sweet gesture![/quote]
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