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[quote=Anonymous]If it is a big moment, like First Communion or similar, I would include her. If you don't, it could potentially create a rift that your relationship might not recover from. Is your DH on the same page? If the two of you discuss your expectations beforehand, it may be easier for you to stand firm if she tries to change things to her benefit. If its just her comments and behaviors, you can have a robot response for it, but those passive aggressive comments are the hardest to ignore (my mom is super passive aggressive and I just can't ignore all of the little digs) And if you are inviting other family members, I think you have to include her. If its a small event, like a church play, I would only invite her if you want to continue to invite her to every event big or small. If you and your DH decided that you want some events to be smaller and just immediately family, don't invite.[/quote]
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