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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for the information. This is very very stressful. I don't think dad is a bad person but he, with his new relationship, is content to let me my mom sort of deteriorate in the house. Last summer I found out incidentally that the AC wasn't working and her house was 95 degrees. I made sure it was fixed asap but I only found out by a surprise visit as my mom just was clueless. Since then I have been rumininating over what to do as I know it will develop into a family control war. Curious--if APS finds reason that she is a mess..and they will of that I am sure. Do they have legal course to get my mom in for a full evaluation? I am asking as my mom would say she is fine and her sister would say she if fine. I am hoping the answer would be that APS would insist on something happening? I know if she was forced to do an evaluation they would for sure find out she needs a lot of help. I do mean a lot. I know it's confusing with someone's right to be a mess but literally I stay up at night wondering if she is safe. I am asking on this anonymous forum as I want to have an idea before I call in case my call starts the process and if there is any downside to my calling and starting the process.[/quote]

You need to get your mom an evaluation.  You need to fly out there and make some appointments or bring her here.  They aren't going to do all that for you. If you are concerned, your only good option is to move her.[/quote]

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