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Reply to "If you were physically unable to intimate anymore, would you be ok with spouse getting it elsewhere?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, we could easily live without sex. Marriages that are all about sex... Well they end poorly.[/quote] You are naive to think sex is just sex. [/quote] But that is exactly why BIL should not have made this arrangement. [/quote] OP here. When I think about it from my BIL's point of view, I understand why he made this arrangement. He once told us that he felt like he was giving his wife a life prison sentence. Not just with sex, but with everything. No more travel as a couple, no more cuddling in bed (he sleeps on an air mattress type of bed designed to try to prevent pressure ulcers), no more fun talks about the future and retirement and all of the vacations they had planned to take, etc etc etc. Giving her permission to seek sex and that pleasure outside the marriage was BIL's way of trying to alleviate the harshness of the "prison sentence" [/quote]
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