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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, it seems like you need to have a talk with YOUR wife and see how she feels about it all, rather than using other people's experiences to help you figure out what your wife is thinking/wants.  [/quote]

This.  The concept of "no means no" is very simple but in reality, there are soft nos and hard nos.  Talk to your partner and if they're not being clear, you need to figure it out before you insert part of your body into theirs.  [/quote]

Hard nos are easy. Just back off and be done with it.

Soft nos are the conundrum. Some women will say anything less than enthusiastic consent should be taken as a "no." Others will say that they like to be desired and a guy persisting through soft nos is a way the guy shows that desire. "Playing hard to get" is a thing. My wife gives me mixed messages - on the one hand, she says "it's nice to be pursued." On the other hand, when I pursue, she'll sometimes complain about "being pressured for sex" makes her want it less. [/quote]

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