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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, open and honest communication wouldn't be "I need to do x, y, and z chores" or something ambivalent or unresponsive to the initiation. Rather, it would be "you're welcome to try to get me in the mood."

When you are ambivalent and he does get you in the mood, are you happier because he persisted, or would you have been just as happy if he had dropped it and gone and done something else? [/quote]

Yes, I'm always happy when he's persisted.  It doesn't happen often (I'm almost always in the mood) and is usually when I have 1000 things going on in my head and just can't get them out enough to concentrate on the pleasure of sex.  But when DH persists,(i.e. taking longer with pre-foreplay like kissing, light touching, etc) it helps me concentrate on that vs what is going on in my head.   Can't say there has ever been a time when I would have rather he just dropped it.  There have been two times during out entire time together that DH hasn't been able to get in the mood with my persistence.  It happens, no big deal.  [/quote]

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