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[quote=Anonymous]Reading various marriages and relationship forums, I've seen women say that when they indicate a lack of enthusiasm toward sex (but not a hard "no") what they really end up appreciating (whether they are thinking it consciously in advance or not) is for their husband to come on stronger - sort of show he's man enough to push through her test and show that he is hot enough for her not to be deterred so easily. His energy is a turn on. On the other hand, I've read enough feminist discussion and have been raised to be respectful enough toward women enough that I've internalized the idea that anything other than enthusiastic consent is sort of rapey. Thoughts? Just for clarification, I'm thinking of a husband/wife situation -- dynamics may be different, say, on a first date. I'm also thinking of a response that's less clear than "No. I don't want to have sex. Get off of me." -- More like, "Again? I'm tired. We just did it on Tuesday." [/quote]
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