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[quote=Anonymous]When he's mad, don't press him with how he should communicate better. Some people need to let something set in, process how they feel, and come up with something constructive to say in response. I'm one of those people. If you come to me with an issue, I'll hear you out but I can't offer up a constructive response immediately. I need at least 20 minutes, sometimes a day if it's something serious, but if you push and push and push, demanding a response out of me immediately, then what I have to say will not be well thought out, considerate, or particularly helpful. It may come off as mean, and worst of all, I probably won't even sincerely mean what I say, so it just turns into an argument over nothing. Say your peace, then give your husband some space. Revisit it when you both feel calm and ready to have a constructive conversation about it. [/quote]
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