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Reply to "Wives, does mens' need for sex make you angry?"
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[quote=Anonymous]DW here. I wouldn't say that I get angry. But I do feel guilty, unappreciated (he doesn't care about everything else I do, only that I'm not putting out ... I absolutely know that this is NOT how he feels, but I can't help the gut reaction), used ("my purpose is to keep him satisfied"... again, I know it's ridiculous but there it is), and a bit defensive. My gut reaction is to give him all of the reasons that I'm not interested at that moment, which probably sounds like an attack. I try to keep it down, calmly explain what I need to happen differently, and then put more effort into "getting in the mood" more (or just starting it anyway, hoping that I'll get in the mood once things are moving. But he probably thinks I sound angry when he tells me that he needs more sex and my response is that I'm exhausted, stressed about work, need to finish the laundry/cooking/whatever.[/quote]
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