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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, my husband's desire for sex doesn't make me angry. We are on the same page about that.

That said, it sounds like you would rather have sex with someone who is forcing herself to have sex with you than go without. I would personally be angry about that, if I was your wife. That would make me feel coerced and objectified.

I don't have a solution for you. Just wanted to point out that your wife is a person, not a blow up doll, and your concern should be what's going on with her, not getting laid more.[/quote]

I expect "what's going on with her" is that she thinks life would be hunky-dory if he just didn't want to have sex with her (or anyone else). And if he addresses that concern by acquiescing, then he's denying his sexuality and the marriage will deteriorate.

Too bad it's not as easy as simply compromising: 
Have sex 100% of the time they both want sex. 
Have sex 0% of the time neither wants sex. 
Have sex 50% of the time he wants sex and she doesn't.
Have sex 50% of the time she wants sex and he doesn't.

In any event, "having sex" isn't the entire solution. If he's anything like me, it's not just "having sex" that I want. Rather, what I mostly want is for my wife to want to have sex with me. [/quote]

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