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[quote=Anonymous]Often (but not always) when a reference to sex comes up, my wife will react angrily, as if men are bad because they want sex.  In different moments, she clearly understands that sex is part of human nature.  And she has sex with me.  Much, much less often than I would like, but she's working on doing it more.  She says she understands that it is essential for a healthy marriage but it's clear that she's forcing herself.

All other things are fine.  Mid 40's.  Two careers are good.  Kids are fine.  We get along fine and balance responsibilities.  But the idea that men want sex makes her angry.  I suspect part of this is her feeling guilty for not having sex more, but then getting angry that the reasons she doesn't want sex (gained a little, but not a lot, of weight after kids, body is different, etc) aren't her fault and then, as is human nature, turns it around.

Ladies, do you feel the same way?  I'm trying to understand so--you guessed it--I can figure out a way past it and I can get more sex.  [/quote]

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