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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Before she had her own kid he wasn't a great aunt and has only carried DC twice.[/quote] I have to roll my eyes at this. You actually counted the times she carried your DS? It makes me think that you're overly critical and overly sensitive - perceiving things that aren't really there (expecting your DH to spend alone time with her 15 mo old) and ignoring what is (she's just not that into kids who aren't hers). Clearly, your SIL isn't the kid person you and your DH are. Why that would make you change how you interact with her kid (ie change who you are), I have no idea. And, what kind of toys does a 15 month old have that a 4 year old would want to play with? There's no reason for a 4 year old needs to play in a baby's room. She probably didn't want him wrecking it. I don't blame her. If you and your DH feel compelled to say something to her, it should be him not you. [/quote]
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