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[quote=Anonymous] Unbelievable. If you suspect this and would be hurt if it's true, just ask him. He may admit it and then you either deal with it together or the relationship falls apart. If he denies it and you can't get passed your suspicion, then the relationship also ends anyway. The only reason to do the detective bit is if you break up and will fight with each other for financial reasons based on notions of fault. I was a child of parents who each hired detectives to spy on each other -- whatever satisfaction or advantage in a divorce proceeding you think you may get by this in most instances will be outweighed by needless escalation of bitterness and distrust in other relationships for years to come in your lives. I'm not saying your approach is never appropriate, but very rarely worth it.[/quote]
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