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[quote=Anonymous]Have a very good friend (considered to be one of my four closest friends). We have known each other for about 15 years and have had a lot of fun times...shes a great person, but I between the two of us am the more sensitive one whereas she is the one where everything "rolls off her back". She has a thick skin in other words. 
However putting personalities aside, to me good manners are good manners. PERIOD. My birthday was on Thursday, my family and good friends all called to wish me a happy birthday, two even sent flowers. This one friend TEXTED me a birthday greeting and that is it! Not a phone call, not even a phone message. To say my feelings are hurt is an understatement. I replied a "thank you" to be courteous but given my very short reply she should have realized that was wrong. She is older than me so trust me she knows better, besides this is someone who prides herself on being proper and refined, with good manners. I am hurt and perplexed. To me there are simply certain things that are simply not acceptable via text message. Wishing a GOOD FRIEND a happy birthday is one of the many. Maybe a casual acquaintance but really what does it say? That she doesn't have 2 minutes to pick up the darn phone and say Happy Birthday?

Signed, really hurt[/quote]

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