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[quote=Anonymous]BIL is divorced and lives with the IL's. He shares custody with his ex wife, they have been divorced about five years. Anyway, MIL is refusing to firm up Xmas plans with us. She won't confirm whether she is hosting Xmas eve or Xmas day. It all depends on when BIL has the kids. So DH told her she has until today to firm up plans as were are invited to other places as well, we are giving her first choice on dates. Everything is revolving around when BIL has the kids. So, I am essentially held hostage by her. Then she says, BIL doesn't want to upset the ex by asking about Xmas??? wtf.... I guess he doesn't care about upsetting us. Isn't this all spelled out in the custody arrangements??? MIL said no it's not, they decide each year. If we don't hear back very soon, we are making other plans. Advice? Comments?[/quote]
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