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[quote=Anonymous]My boyfriend of 5 years is very loyal to me, and we're very happy together. He has always been flirty with other girls, but I flirt with other guys too and we're very chilled out and easy-going about it. I completely 100% trust that he is faithful to me. Over 5 years, I've gotten to know him extremely well and I know that he is not going to step out on me. He has earned my trust.

I recently found out that a new female friend of his - I've met her a couple times, and she's a super nice girl - has become the occasional subject of his masturbation fantasies. (We have sex regularly, by the way, and it's never boring.) He said that he didn't have a crush on her and she didn't have one on him, but he found her very attractive.

I'm hurt. It's one thing if he jerks off to porn, but this is a woman he actually knows. Is it normal for attached men to masturbate to attractive female friends? How should I handle this? I mean, I've gotten off to movie stars, but not other guys I know.

I want to hear from men in this thread, or girlfriends or wives who have experienced this.[/quote]

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