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[quote=Anonymous]+1000 ^^^^^^ Re-read PP's last paragraph over and over OP. you need to work on you. Go to therapy. Go to Al-Anon. Figure out what your issues are. When you're with an addict, it's really easy to say, "Well, HE is the one with the problem. If he would just get himself together everything would be fine." But it doesn't work like that. You are part of this. I'm not saying you made him drink. What I'm saying is that you have your own issues that need to be dealt with. Perhaps you need to look at ways you ignored his drinking and made excuses for him. Maybe there were warning signs and you chose to ignore them. Alcoholism is a family disease. YOU have your own recovery to go through. Stop focusing on his recovery and figure out how you need to change and grow. [/quote]
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