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[quote=Anonymous]Get thee to www.survivinginfidelity.com.  Read the Healing Library there (I don't think you have to be registered yet to do that).  Register and start asking questions.  People who have actual experience will be much better at giving concrete advice than anyone on this board.

Generally, cheaters will lie unless confronted with hard evidence.  So stop talking about it and start digging.  If she or he suspects you are suspicious, s/he will take things farther underground, so it is important to act as normal as possible.

Take care of yourself.  Eat, sleep, exercise.  You need to be strong.  Also, get into therapy now.  Find someone who actually knows something about infidelity and won't just try to mend the relationship without dealing with the fallout (Doug Cohen in Georgetown has been recommended on this board for that).

Finally, get your worst case scenario ducks in a row.  See a lawyer.  Get financial documents in order.  When you do have concrete information, you will want to be in a strong position, even if you decide to reconcile.

Good luck.

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