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[quote=Anonymous]My wife has a lower sex drive than me. So, (tmi - sorry) I take care of myself fairly often to make up the difference. No big deal there.

However, I got to wondering whether this creates a downward spiral. If I let more sexual tension build up in myself; I'm more likely to focus attention on my wife -- the romantic efforts, in turn, might make her interested in sex more frequently (though, it's very unlikely that it would increase her interest to my level of frequency.) On the other hand, focusing additional, lust motivated attention on her could simply end up being annoying.

I guess I could ask her. But, even if it were the case that the additional attention would get her revved up more frequently, I doubt she'd admit to being selfish enough to enjoy benefiting from my sexual frustration.

You anonymous people of the Internet need not be concerned about being perceived as selfish. So, what do you think ladies? Would you enjoy your husband more if his masturbation were off the table & you were his only sexual outlet such that he tried harder and initiated more frequently and more aggressively?[/quote]

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