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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sympathetic to the OP here, though I am not sure what the right call is to make. OP, did you and DH discuss this when you made travel plans this summer? As in, did you consciously make the choice to go see him when he was alive knowing that might mean that you wouldn't make it to a funeral? Did you discuss funeral travel at all before it came to now, the time of his dying? If you have previous conversations to reference, that would be helpful. If it really means the difference between you and your family having a vacation together in the next year (in terms of vacation time and money), I might gently urge my DH not to go...but it would to be a pretty big sacrifice for the family for me to do that.[/quote]
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