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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP :  I offer this with humor not bitchy-ness:
get some of the money back from that therapy. You should have cut off that old hag years ago.

a short story as illustration:
I will spare you all the details of my horrible, life-distroying, physically and mentally abusive mother but suffice it to say she was all that and more.

[b]When I was 5 months pregnant, my husband and I visited her (she lives far away).  When we got home there was a horrible voice mail message on our phone. I teared up and my husband calmy told me that, he didn't want his son seeing his wife mistreated like that ever and in his opinion, I would be healthier if I kept her out of our lives.
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That's the "permission" that I needed to give myself  and so I cut her off 4 years ago. She has met neither of her grand children and only knows about #2 b/c somebody in our family told her.

Now, I feel like a horrible daughter on occasion but then remember my husbands words, look at my kids, and remember that I made the decision as much for them as for me.

Good luck, God bless and i hope you get peace on this soon.[/quote]

I Heart Your Husband. I wish we could all have partners with this kind of calm, strong certainty. And you did the absolute best thing. It stopped with you. Is it possible to be proud of strangers? Apparently. Hats off to you. Its inspiring.[/quote]

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