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[quote=Anonymous]OP :  I offer this with humor not bitchy-ness:
get some of the money back from that therapy. You should have cut off that old hag years ago.

a short story as illustration:
I will spare you all the details of my horrible, life-distroying, physically and mentally abusive mother but suffice it to say she was all that and more.

When I was 5 months pregnant, my husband and I visited her (she lives far away).  When we got home there was a horrible voice mail message on our phone. I teared up and my husband calmy told me that, he didn't want his son seeing his wife mistreated like that ever and in his opinion, I would be healthier if I kept her out of our lives.

That's the "permission" that I needed to give myself  and so I cut her off 4 years ago. She has met neither of her grand children and only knows about #2 b/c somebody in our family told her.

Now, I feel like a horrible daughter on occasion but then remember my husbands words, look at my kids, and remember that I made the decision as much for them as for me.

Good luck, God bless and i hope you get peace on this soon.[/quote]

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