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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm the OP of the receipt thread.  I felt I should respond.  I'm doing ok.  I feel a bit disassociated from this whole situation, to be honest.  The entire situation blindsighted me.  I did not marry the man who I saw last night.  But I have an appointment with a therapist tomorrow.

I asked Jeff to lock the thread not because of how mean people were being, but because I did not want to see some 13+ page thread unfold after I logged on to share that he had, in fact, cheated.  I would find the compassion more difficult to bear than the bullying, which I can distance myself from.  I'm a career sales person, I have a thick skin.  But people saying how sorry they were, siding with me, sharing their (all too common) stories - I felt that was too much to bear.  And I wanted the thread that I started out of fear to end.

I'm grateful to DCUM.  I was going to believe him, and I have a right to know who I married.  What happens next, well, everyone can feel rest assured that I'll be ok.  I have a strong family, a solid sense of self, and I'm not by any stretch of the imagination a wimp, as a few people indicated.

Thanks for the well wishes.

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Thanks for posting - I was thinking about you. I, too, am experienced in the arena, unfortunately. I really like the part about how the compassion hurts more because it is so true. My thoughts are with you.

Thanks for this thread. [/quote]

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