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[quote=Anonymous]I started a new job 3 weeks ago.  I recieve 10 days of paid vacation every year.
My plan was to use 3 or 4 days over Christmas, another 5 days in June to visit my fiance's family in NY and 2 days as "just in case" time.
My younger cousin (21) called tonight and asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding in July in Michigan.
I don't want to disappoint her as she doesn't have many friends and she was desperate enough to ask me (I'm 12 years older than her and haven't seen her in 3 years). 
I have a few concerns.
1.  The NY trip is non-negotiable.  I love my fiance's family and have a blast on this trip every year.
2.  I don't want to take vacation time so close together-especially with a job I just started.
3.  Soooo much money.
4.  I am not very close with most of my family members who will be at this wedding (poor life choices, alcoholism, etc.)
5.  I would have to spend a chunk of my free-time running around doing wedding stuff.

Do I buy her a killer gift or make it happen?  What would you do?
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