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[quote=Anonymous]Please I'm only looking for helpful advice and not looking to have negative comments thrown at me. I'm trying to find my way just like everyone else and could use some helpful advice. Not be judged and belittled.

Three months ago I was working two jobs, one fulltime and one part time and was fully able to support myself, until I was unexpectedly laid off and only left with the part time job and bills I couldn't afford. In ways my family has been helpful but in others they haven't. I need help deciding what to do from here.

My grandmother has been helping me supplement my bills since I no longer make enough to pay my rent. She also pays for my school. I used to live with her before I moved but it never works out so moving with her is not a option. She lives to far out, I don't drive and a personalities crash whenever we are around each other for too long.  While she is finically she's helpiful, emotionally she's not. She constantally puts me down, rubs in my face that's she helping me and nags me to no end.  But I can't walk away because I still need her help since my mom is pretty much non helpful.

I have already planning to try and move to a more affordable living situation and applying for more jobs daily. My question is how can I accept her help but from a distantace  so I can try and get myself together. For a long time I have been used to being babied and I would like to find my own way and work towards my relationship with my family when I'm ready. I'm thinking of sending her a email to ask her if she can please deposit her monthly contributions in to my accounts monthly until I get on my feet. Also if you can help pay for school that's great since it's helping towards my future. But other than that I'd like my space.

To answer any further questions:

I'm 23 
I have no kids 
My current job only brings in about $400 dollars a month
My mother has is no helpful and her place is to small for me to move with her and my dad is non existent 
My family is pretty small and I have no one else who can help me. [/quote]

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