Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She doesn't give me the money....I give her what I have and she writes the check and gives it to my landlord which is also far more involvement then I wanted her to have. Whenever I try to have her step back and do things myself she always becomes to invasive and steps ion and controls and gets mad when things don't go exactly her way which causes conflicts. I never wanted my landlord to even know she's helping me with my rent and now every little thing she's involved....
If she's supplying the money, she has a right to be involved. Sorry, that is how it works. Sounds like you just want to take advantage of your grandmother. You're going to make a great nurse
Look, I'm not taking advantage of her. At any times I give her and the rest of my family what I can but since I lost my full time job I can't....Since the age of 16 I've always been willing to get up off my ass and work. While me and my grandmother have our differences this is why she helps me also because I have no one else. She knows in a heartbeat I'm willing to work 3+ jobs to make ends meet but this time around I can't find anything.
I wish you would take your negative ass off my post because you know nothing of what you're talking about.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wait, you want her to deposit money for you in an account so that you don't have to see her at all? Is that what you're asking? If so I don't think that's going to work. You're going to have to suck it up and see her every once in awhile if you want to take her money.
Yup this. You either see her and get money, or you don't and figure it out on your own. Additionally to ask her to deposit money to pay for school is beyond ridiculous. And that is where I'll stop since I'm trying to be nice here.
So what would you do in my shoes....sit around and keep dealing with emotional abuse....I'm trying to prevent this from going further while still being respectful.
I'd take a semester off from school and get some work. I'd move. I'd do whatever it took. But no, I wouldn't take advantage of my grandmother. You are so beyond immature it isn't even funny.
+1 Yup, it's time to grow up and make it on your own. It sucks to be responsible, but that is part of becoming mature and a productive person in society.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She doesn't give me the money....I give her what I have and she writes the check and gives it to my landlord which is also far more involvement then I wanted her to have. Whenever I try to have her step back and do things myself she always becomes to invasive and steps ion and controls and gets mad when things don't go exactly her way which causes conflicts. I never wanted my landlord to even know she's helping me with my rent and now every little thing she's involved....
If she's supplying the money, she has a right to be involved. Sorry, that is how it works. Sounds like you just want to take advantage of your grandmother. You're going to make a great nurse
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wait, you want her to deposit money for you in an account so that you don't have to see her at all? Is that what you're asking? If so I don't think that's going to work. You're going to have to suck it up and see her every once in awhile if you want to take her money.
Yup this. You either see her and get money, or you don't and figure it out on your own. Additionally to ask her to deposit money to pay for school is beyond ridiculous. And that is where I'll stop since I'm trying to be nice here.
So what would you do in my shoes....sit around and keep dealing with emotional abuse....I'm trying to prevent this from going further while still being respectful.
I'd take a semester off from school and get some work. I'd move. I'd do whatever it took. But no, I wouldn't take advantage of my grandmother. You are so beyond immature it isn't even funny.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wait, you want her to deposit money for you in an account so that you don't have to see her at all? Is that what you're asking? If so I don't think that's going to work. You're going to have to suck it up and see her every once in awhile if you want to take her money.
Yup this. You either see her and get money, or you don't and figure it out on your own. Additionally to ask her to deposit money to pay for school is beyond ridiculous. And that is where I'll stop since I'm trying to be nice here.
So what would you do in my shoes....sit around and keep dealing with emotional abuse....I'm trying to prevent this from going further while still being respectful.
Anonymous wrote:She doesn't give me the money....I give her what I have and she writes the check and gives it to my landlord which is also far more involvement then I wanted her to have. Whenever I try to have her step back and do things myself she always becomes to invasive and steps ion and controls and gets mad when things don't go exactly her way which causes conflicts. I never wanted my landlord to even know she's helping me with my rent and now every little thing she's involved....
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wait, you want her to deposit money for you in an account so that you don't have to see her at all? Is that what you're asking? If so I don't think that's going to work. You're going to have to suck it up and see her every once in awhile if you want to take her money.
Yup this. You either see her and get money, or you don't and figure it out on your own. Additionally to ask her to deposit money to pay for school is beyond ridiculous. And that is where I'll stop since I'm trying to be nice here.
Anonymous wrote:Wait, you want her to deposit money for you in an account so that you don't have to see her at all? Is that what you're asking? If so I don't think that's going to work. You're going to have to suck it up and see her every once in awhile if you want to take her money.