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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Stop blaming your mothers and your past.

You are adults now. You are responsible for the dynamic. 
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This.  Personal responsibility, folks.  You alone are responsible for the choices you make as adult.[/quote]

I agree. At some point you have to own your actions. Your childhood can help you understand why you think and act the way you have but the responsibility to act differently lies on you. I would suggest that instead of couples counseling you each should do some CBT or individual counseling to help you figure out who to think differently in situations where your current patterns are leading you awry. It is hard to change patterns of thinking that have been in place for decades but it is doable. Even if you divorce you are both passing these unhealthy patterns onto your kids through modeling it. Different problems than your parents passed on to you, but you are making life harder for your kids and they are going to have to do hard work as adults to undo what they learned from you. [/quote]

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