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[quote=Anonymous] Your most powerful weapon is your united front (DH and you). Present her with your joint solution, never get sucked into criticizing or defending each other. You can either decide something about MIL right now (such as going to a hotel, or never leaving her alone with the kids, never driving the kids, etc) and present it to her as a non-negotiable rule. She leaves or she complies. Or you can decide to let this visit pass on neutral terms, and not inviting her again unless she complies with your rules (she gets just one second chance, not more). In that case, no need for chit-chat. Talk only when you have to, and in a neutral way. Having been there with my own mother, I know co-habitation is a terrible burden after major disagreements. Minimal communication was my solution. [/quote]
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