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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am either invisible or bullied. Once, a coworker actually said to someone else while the three of us were chatting something about how women like me (ugly) aren't the type to be asked to get married. As soon as it was out of her mouth she got embarrassed but still. People always assume I don't want to be in a picture or they don't want me to be in their picture, so I wind up invited to play photographer a LOT. I am physically touched very little. This may just be shallow people, but sometimes people will pick one feature of mine and then fawn over it, always though it is followed by asking me for a favor. I don't know why it is assumed that ugly = too dumb to notice. I'm not treated "like a lady." Doors are constantly dropped on me by people walking ahead. I can be the only person standing on the train, then an average to pretty woman boards and two men will jump to give up their seats for her. Pretty women will do the humble-brag and then act like I'm so lucky to not have to worry about their problem of two great men being interested in me. [/quote] Not trying to be mean, genuinely curious. Most "ugly" people are ones who do not take care of themselves and are not really ugly. They get picked on because their clothing is outdated, they still wear bright pink lipstick, their hair is stuck in the 80's, wear pigtales, side pony tales, etc. My aunt for example would be picked on for her clothing and hair choice- but she doesn't want to cut her hair so she is a 60+ woman sporting the ill fitting clothing, outdated makeup and long long long hair that she gets put in a French braid, etc. My mother and her share several traits but my mother looks nothing like her probably because the kids nag her about hair, clothing, make up. So, have you considered a make over? Or are you saying you need plastic surgery? I also think confidence goes a long way...[/quote]
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