Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 18:58     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
But what makes you think you are ugly? At what age do you look at yourself and admit/realize you are ugly and just accept it if there is such a thing?
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 16:44     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
Anonymous wrote:I am either invisible or bullied.

Once, a coworker actually said to someone else while the three of us were chatting something about how women like me (ugly) aren't the type to be asked to get married. As soon as it was out of her mouth she got embarrassed but still.

People always assume I don't want to be in a picture or they don't want me to be in their picture, so I wind up invited to play photographer a LOT.

I am physically touched very little.

This may just be shallow people, but sometimes people will pick one feature of mine and then fawn over it, always though it is followed by asking me for a favor. I don't know why it is assumed that ugly = too dumb to notice.

I'm not treated "like a lady." Doors are constantly dropped on me by people walking ahead. I can be the only person standing on the train, then an average to pretty woman boards and two men will jump to give up their seats for her.

Pretty women will do the humble-brag and then act like I'm so lucky to not have to worry about their problem of two great men being interested in me.


This almost made me cry. I feel so badly to hear this. Our society is ridiculous that we don't treat people well based on something so superficial. You do not deserve that.
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 16:43     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
Anonymous wrote:My looks range from frumpy to decent looking depending my my hair styling, whether I am wearing a skirt, etc. it is frustrating how much nicer men, including male coworkers are to me when I wear a skirt and straighten my hair.


I honestly don't think this is gender specific. I'm sure if an experiment was done, regular men would be treated differently when they wore tailored suits and had a good haircut vs scraggly, messy hair and messy clothes.
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 16:39     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
Anonymous wrote:I am either invisible or bullied.

Once, a coworker actually said to someone else while the three of us were chatting something about how women like me (ugly) aren't the type to be asked to get married. As soon as it was out of her mouth she got embarrassed but still.

People always assume I don't want to be in a picture or they don't want me to be in their picture, so I wind up invited to play photographer a LOT.

I am physically touched very little.

This may just be shallow people, but sometimes people will pick one feature of mine and then fawn over it, always though it is followed by asking me for a favor. I don't know why it is assumed that ugly = too dumb to notice.

I'm not treated "like a lady." Doors are constantly dropped on me by people walking ahead. I can be the only person standing on the train, then an average to pretty woman boards and two men will jump to give up their seats for her.

Pretty women will do the humble-brag and then act like I'm so lucky to not have to worry about their problem of two great men being interested in me.


That is sad, PP. I hope you meet someone who has the intelligence to look beyond your physical appearance. You sound like a sensitive and kind person.
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 16:37     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
Anonymous wrote:I am either invisible or bullied.

Once, a coworker actually said to someone else while the three of us were chatting something about how women like me (ugly) aren't the type to be asked to get married. As soon as it was out of her mouth she got embarrassed but still.

People always assume I don't want to be in a picture or they don't want me to be in their picture, so I wind up invited to play photographer a LOT.

I am physically touched very little.

This may just be shallow people, but sometimes people will pick one feature of mine and then fawn over it, always though it is followed by asking me for a favor. I don't know why it is assumed that ugly = too dumb to notice.

I'm not treated "like a lady." Doors are constantly dropped on me by people walking ahead. I can be the only person standing on the train, then an average to pretty woman boards and two men will jump to give up their seats for her.


Pretty women will do the humble-brag and then act like I'm so lucky to not have to worry about their problem of two great men being interested in me.



Not trying to be mean, genuinely curious. Most "ugly" people are ones who do not take care of themselves and are not really ugly. They get picked on because their clothing is outdated, they still wear bright pink lipstick, their hair is stuck in the 80's, wear pigtales, side pony tales, etc. My aunt for example would be picked on for her clothing and hair choice- but she doesn't want to cut her hair so she is a 60+ woman sporting the ill fitting clothing, outdated makeup and long long long hair that she gets put in a French braid, etc. My mother and her share several traits but my mother looks nothing like her probably because the kids nag her about hair, clothing, make up.

So, have you considered a make over? Or are you saying you need plastic surgery? I also think confidence goes a long way...
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 16:25     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
My looks range from frumpy to decent looking depending my my hair styling, whether I am wearing a skirt, etc. it is frustrating how much nicer men, including male coworkers are to me when I wear a skirt and straighten my hair.
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 16:23     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
Anonymous wrote:I am either invisible or bullied.

Once, a coworker actually said to someone else while the three of us were chatting something about how women like me (ugly) aren't the type to be asked to get married. As soon as it was out of her mouth she got embarrassed but still.

People always assume I don't want to be in a picture or they don't want me to be in their picture, so I wind up invited to play photographer a LOT.

I am physically touched very little.

This may just be shallow people, but sometimes people will pick one feature of mine and then fawn over it, always though it is followed by asking me for a favor. I don't know why it is assumed that ugly = too dumb to notice.

I'm not treated "like a lady." Doors are constantly dropped on me by people walking ahead. I can be the only person standing on the train, then an average to pretty woman boards and two men will jump to give up their seats for her.

Pretty women will do the humble-brag and then act like I'm so lucky to not have to worry about their problem of two great men being interested in me.


That is pretty sad
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 15:45     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
I am either invisible or bullied.

Once, a coworker actually said to someone else while the three of us were chatting something about how women like me (ugly) aren't the type to be asked to get married. As soon as it was out of her mouth she got embarrassed but still.

People always assume I don't want to be in a picture or they don't want me to be in their picture, so I wind up invited to play photographer a LOT.

I am physically touched very little.

This may just be shallow people, but sometimes people will pick one feature of mine and then fawn over it, always though it is followed by asking me for a favor. I don't know why it is assumed that ugly = too dumb to notice.

I'm not treated "like a lady." Doors are constantly dropped on me by people walking ahead. I can be the only person standing on the train, then an average to pretty woman boards and two men will jump to give up their seats for her.

Pretty women will do the humble-brag and then act like I'm so lucky to not have to worry about their problem of two great men being interested in me.
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 15:42     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
They're compelled to give more blowjobs than the pretty girls?
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 15:40     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
Anonymous wrote:Invisible. People have contempt for you just for being. Men say mean comments to you, especially if you're also fat. I don't know this from personal experience, but from other women. Although these things happen to attractive women too.

It's actually - I love bad bitches, that's my f*cking problem.


Yes, and the next lines are

And yeah I like to f/I got a f-in problem
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 15:39     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
Invisible. People have contempt for you just for being. Men say mean comments to you, especially if you're also fat. I don't know this from personal experience, but from other women. Although these things happen to attractive women too.

It's actually - I love bad bitches, that's my f*cking problem.
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 15:32     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
I got a f**kin problem.

--A$AP Rocky
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 15:23     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
No problems other than being ignored.
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 15:16     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
Would you go away please?

We don't care about gorgeous kids, gorgeous adults, ugly people and constant race baiting.

Good riddance!
Anonymous
Post 08/20/2013 15:16     Subject: What kind of problems do ugly women have?
Just curious.....