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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe you should try to develop your own relationship with them first as a trial, to see how you feel? Have lunch or coffee and see how they act. If it starts to go downhill than you will know that they are the same (which, lets be real) they probably are). Keep doing it until they start realizing how they are 'supposed' to treat you. Might take a whole. Then when they are on the right track you can start with the play dates in public places. This way you'll be sure that they're for real before exposing your kids.
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This is pp again.  Why?  Why should OP do this?  she hasn't spoken to them in 2 years.  she gains nothing - absolutely nothing - by developing a relationship with them.  And could potentially have them badmouth her to her kids.  Even if they figure out how they are supposed to treat OP, the minute they'll be alone with the kids, they'll go back to their real opinions about their daughter.

Sorry OP, you're dealing with this.  It sucks when your own parents treat you this way.[/quote]

The this the pp you just quoted.

It's a trial -- if she doesn't want to she'll know for sure at that time. And she has to have a relationship with them if they're going to see the kids on her time anyway. Otherwise she should just drop it all together.[/quote]

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