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[quote=Anonymous]It happened that my parents loved, loved, loved my ex-DH.  They loved him so much that during divorce and custody proceedings they testified on his behalf.  They said that I was a bad mother, bad wife, because I chose to work instead of staying at home like my mother and former MIL.  Luckily, we had a reasonable judge who gave me primary physical and legal custody.  Ex-DH traveled 80% of his time; our children would've been raised by nannies.  It has been 2 years now but I refuse to speak to my parents.  To this day, they haven't apologized for the emotional turmoil they put me through.  Since my children live with me most of the time, my parents have been trying to see them and even threatened to sue for visitation rights.  So far, they haven't followed up on their threats.

My shrink suggested I do a trial visit in a neutral environment, like a playground or a coffee shop or a museum.  I am extremely cautious as these people have no boundaries and can start badmouthing me in front of my kids.  My kids are completely oblivious to them.  [/quote]

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