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[quote=Anonymous]I was in one of those jobs. Stressed beyond belief, non of my normal coping mechanisms were working (exercise, taking vacation days etc). I was getting all kinds of symptoms but it was when I was starting to drink each and every night I got home to lessen the pain that I knew I could not keep it up - not for the salary, time off, retirement benefits etc. I was in a toxic environment, and I was turning my life outside of work into a toxic environment. I started looking for jobs but realized how hard it was to find the time to look and deal with the crab at the office. I also was afraid that I was in such a bad situation that I couldn't sell myself to another place feeling the way I did. So I starting saving like crazy, cutting back in everything we did (spouse does work so at least we had another salary). Just knowing what I was playing to do and that I had an out made me feel so much better. When we felt like we had a financial cushion in place I gave my 2 weeks notice. Oh that was a great feeling. I gave myself a month to relax and then I went to work finding a new job. Took a little while but I wanted to make sure it was a good fit and not just a paycheck. The best decision I made was to quit, my Blood pressure dropped, my happiness returned. When you are that type of toxic environment it impacts every aspect of your life. Find a way to get out - for yourself and those around you. Life is too short to be that miserable. [/quote]
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