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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you want to make your daughter in law adore and worship you, ask her when a visit would be convenient for her (in labor, at birth, 2 weeks later?) Pre-empt the where-to-stay conversation by telling her upfront that you will stay in a hotel, and ask what duties you could best help with (taking care of older child, running errands, cooking, laundry, rocking crying baby, etc). Let her know that you are there to help her, not to be a guest. Then stick to it all. She will love you. And please remember: they are not having your grandchild; they are having their child. [/quote]
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