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[quote=Anonymous]Will SO stay in the house if FIL dies first? Does your DH also get 49%? Who gets the 2% Your BIL's life may improve if he moved into your FIL's house but you are assuming that BIL sees it that way and would actually move. A man described as a hermit for 30 yrs isn't likely to up and change. Your DH needs to put the home he lives in ahead of someone else's. The promise of a home at some unknown time in the future is a terrible thing to focus on. Your DH helping his dad in his old age is wonderful but that doesn't mean he needs to sacrifice and make create financial burdens to do so. In fact, if he asked his dad if creating huge financial burdens was something that was worthwhile his dad is likely to say no. He can help his dad make better and realistic finaical choices. Change is hard. Nobody likes it. But change happens. [/quote]
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