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[quote=Anonymous]I am the wife and likely headed for divorce (his choice, not mine). I make 50k more than him. I have also saved more for retirement (I started maxing out 403b before we met and he started much more recently). I also will inherit much more than he will. I assume custody will be about 50-50 for our elementary school aged kid. I’m going to do my absolute best to keep things amicable, even though I’m so sad and angry that he’s choosing his midlife crisis “I have to pursue my own path” craziness, over keeping our family together. Married 10 years. 1. What do people mean when they say, “get your affairs in order?” 2. What can I expect to pay in terms of spousal support and child support? I make 200k. He makes 150k. 3. What will happen to my retirement accounts? Of course, I’ll consult an attorney but I’m not quite there yet and would appreciate some thoughts on the questions above. [/quote]
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