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[quote=Anonymous]OP. I expected to get some negative reactions to my post. I am not basing my conclusion / what I said solely on MIL’s request to DH, there have been other things. Also, I offered multiple times to MIL for me to bring the kids to visit her. My kids are elementary-aged, so young enough that their schedules are flexible, and missing some school is no big deal, but not so young that they would be a huge distraction or burdensome to MIL. I offered to stay at their house or hotel, at her preference. We visited her and FIL a couple times after his diagnosis, and I was very mindful to keep out of their hair and spend time with her and FIL only when they were up for it. MIL kept insisting I not bring the kids to visit, but at the same time, she kept asking DH to stay with her. It just does not make sense to me how she would ask DH to stay, but tell us not to come.[/quote]
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