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[quote=Anonymous]My DH and I have been struggling with infertility for three years which included 3 failed IUIs and 4 failed IVFs. We have severe male factor and now I am also old (40).  When we began our fertility treatment, I really needed to talk to someone so I told one friend (who I thought was a good friend) that we were doing ART.  I did not want to share the details of our problem, but after being asked numerous times and thinking that she's a trusted friend, I told her that we have male factor.  Her response was - so all those years of not wanting to get pregnant, you didn't even have to try.  She then brags about her husband's virility and says all she has to do is use her husband's toothbrush and she can get pregnant.  She then said she could never do ART because she would never want to be a martyr.  I've talked to her once or twice since that conversation (over a year ago) when I accidentally picked up her call and only about generic things.  I have been thinking about this for many months now and don't know if I should tell her that her comments were insensitive and hurtful?  Is it even worth saying anything to her?[/quote]

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