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[quote=Anonymous]I’m trying to figure out if I’m overreacting here or not. DH and I have been going through fertility treatment, and it turns out my PCOS isn’t the issue... it’s actually DH’s low sperm count.

I’m really close with my mom, so I’ve shared everything with her, but I haven’t told anyone else in my family. That’s why I was surprised when I got a Mother’s Day card from my aunt (my mom’s sister) saying, “thinking of you on this Mother’s Day.”

It made me feel upset and a little... idk...  exposed (??) because it seems like my mom may have shared something with her. When I asked my mom, she said she doesn’t remember saying anything and doesn’t think she did. I haven't spoken to her in a few days since it happened. For reference, my mom has a history of saying "I don't remember" regarding events that she was present for. A lot of this has to probably do with my unresolved feelings of hurt from my childhood and teen years of dad being abusive and her gaslighting me about it or saying she doesn't recall.

Now I’m wondering if I’m overreacting or if it’s reasonable to feel hurt about this? [/quote]

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