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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It never goes away. You never trust in the same way ever again. It changes you on a cellular level. This has recently been proven by research at Harvard. [/quote] This. Betrayal is a form of serious emotional abuse. You will never trust in the same way again. That doesn’t mean you won’t stop thinking about it every day - you will. You also won’t always hurt as much when you think about it. Medication and therapy help - not because you are wrong or ill but because feeling things too deeply and ruminating is, perhaps, unnecessary to processing and recovery. Similarly, I’m suggesting therapy not because something is wrong with you and that made you pick a “bad“ guy, but that you need a clear minded, individual, unbiased (so no family members or friends) person who can help un-gaslight you and help you construct and enforce boundaries and focus on building your own best life.[/quote]
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