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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's been a mixed bag.

I left my xH for another man, who dumped me within a month of me leaving.

I ended up having another child who I adore (accidental pregnancy), and I'm in a LTR with an amazing man who is everything I've ever dreamed of.

But, there's been a lot of hard times. I was a SAHM and had to start over in a new career. Money is still tight and I'm stressed out a lot. I'm now stuck in a city I absolutely hate.

I don't really know if I can say I regret it. My problem in my marriage was that I was a pushover and my xH is extremely domineering. Now, I have no problem standing up to him, and I think he respects me more because I'm not dependent on him and I don't put up with any BS from him. In theory, I could have probably done this in my marriage, but I also didn't have the life experience and self-esteem that my struggles ended up giving me.

But I do really miss that cushy SAHM lifestyle, and I miss my kids when they're not with me. Generally when my SAHM friends are thinking of divorce, I push them not to, especially if it's over relatively minor things and their husbands make good money.[/quote]

You don't sound like a pushover if you had an affair and didn't think twice about having multiple ones.  Sounds like you were the problem in the marriage.  You should appologize to him.[/quote]

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