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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP and during my quiet quit, I went on a trip to nurse and elderly relative. DH brought it up repeatedly during divorce proceedings as evidence that I wasn’t a team player, because I came home frustrated that there was no food in the house for the kids and that none of the usual weekly chores had been done, like laundry. We were in the middle of formal mediation, and he was whining that my expectations weren’t fair. This was a man on the road 100 days or more per year for work who also took 3-4 friend trips per year and visited his parents frequently. This made me realize that quiet quitting was never going to be a wake up call or “train” my DH to step up. He knew exactly what he’d been doing all along and saw it as his right within the marriage. [/quote] Is your life better now after the divorce? My situation is very similar with DH’s travel. [/quote] For example, this week he flew to Vegas for a single night for the purpose of going to a dinner and getting wasted that he claims was for work and it was only added to the calendar a couple days before he decided to go. This is not an isolated incident, it's just a day innoyr life. Meanwhile, I work a more than full-time job most days and run kids all over the city for travel sports and I'm lucky if I get 5 hours of sleep before I do it all another day. I'm just done. [/quote]
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