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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A man who is 35, in general, wants a woman who can have children.  He is not going to want to be in a serious relationship with a woman in her 40s for this reason, so if he is attracted to the older woman, it's going to be a sex/short-term thing.

Now hoards of posters will respond to say that younger men all yearn to date and marry a woman too old to give them a family, but they are wrong.  There are exceptions, but for the most part, you need to be looking at men who already have kids or are older, if you want a real relationship.

Otherwise, just have fun.[/quote]

I mean I'm the op. [b]My 44-year-old cousin just gave birth. I think it's pretty ignorant of men to view wonen as birthing machines. They want a family so badly they can adopt or get a surrogate. [/b]Also, another reason this ticks me off is because I was in a long relationship with a man in my thirties who never discussed children but he wanted to get married but he never mentioned children so he would cheat and since he never mentioned them, I never thought about them either. I wanted to have kids with someone I love but for me love comes before kids so I want to be in love with someone before thinking of having a family and I would think a man who's over 35 thinks the same thing if they are mature enough which it seems most are not.[/quote]

This is not how it works, and it is very selfish.  A man who wants to have his own children with his wife is "pretty ignorant" for not being just as open to marrying a 40+ women because he can just..."adopt or get a surrogate" if the woman can't conceive?  It isn't "viewing women as birthing machines" for him to want kids with a wife, to want a traditional family.

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